I recently watched an episode with Oprah where she has Trevor Noah on Super Soul to discuss his book "Born a Crime" and at one point in the
discussion he mentioned a term that resonated with me. It was one of those
terms you may have never heard before, but I could somehow tell what it meant because
it so accurately described itself. The "Black Tax", as used by Trevor and many others relates to having to continue to pay for the historical sins of the past. Here is his
example.
“Growing up with a black
mum in apartheid South Africa gave me a very different experience. Simply put,
a mixed child walking around with a black woman wasn’t something one saw every
day and being her son was indeed a crime. My mum however, was determined that I
didn’t feel such pressures and went out of her way to give me a life that truly
started with a blank slate.”
The "Black Tax", is a term
that has been used in America to mean paying more for things simply because one
is black. Just a note, this doesn't always just refer to finances.
This example I completely understand.
I was born a mixed child from a black single mother in Jamaica that was third
generation free slave. And the rest of my maternal heritage were slaves in Jamaica with
the full African slave experience. My husband has the same situation and we
determined to stand in the gap and pay the “black tax” for our children as
well. We coined the term “Firstlings” to describe our situation for payment of
the black tax. We were the first in our families to accomplish many things. We unfortunately
did not have the privilege of climbing on the steps that were created before us
by parents and grandparents. This has greatly shifted our educational, social,
spiritual, economical and fundamental status. We should have been able to at
the minimum begin life at ground zero and work our way up like most other
people.
In truth and actuality, the "Black Tax" over the years has been compounded, and we felt like we began at a deficit minus 100. This is the privilege that we are given for being born into a history of colonial oppression, curses to our family line and injustice that has never been fully addressed.
In truth and actuality, the "Black Tax" over the years has been compounded, and we felt like we began at a deficit minus 100. This is the privilege that we are given for being born into a history of colonial oppression, curses to our family line and injustice that has never been fully addressed.
My husband and myself have
used our opportunities and finances to bring our family back up to zero, because
the generations who came before us have been raped, robbed and pillaged.
We are the pioneers who made it out of the “ghetto” or “Egypt”
and have not truly been able to enjoy the spoils. We have been trying to get “Egypt”
out of us and get our children into the promised land.
As pioneers from a black family we have had to
spend prayers, time, money, and resources ensuring that our loved ones live a "regular" life. This has been a hard journey and an experience that we corporately share
with many other black people in Canada, America, South Africa and other places
that have suffered from systemic racism.
Imagine this scenario; you
are playing a board game and every time you pass “Go” instead for getting $200
like the other players you somehow get the snakes and ladder experience and have
to begin all over again.
I end sharing a quote from
Trever Noah that explains many of the effects of the “Black Tax” and “Privilege”.
“If you think of it like this —
you know a lot of the time when you hear people having conversations about
white privilege, male privilege and so on, I think sometimes what gets lost is
with the word “privilege” comes the connotation of having a good time. You
know, people go, “What privilege? I may be a white man but I’m poor. I may be a
white man but I’m suffering.” And that is completely true. And sometimes I go,
“Maybe in the labeling, it’s almost like it could have gone the other way and
it’s like, is it a black disadvantage? Or is it a female disadvantage?” Because
we cannot deny that there are certain handicaps that come with these certain
labels you know that exist. If you look at the effects of what you’ve lived
through in your life, you cannot deny that they compound. You cannot deny that
they grow over time. So people who say things like, “Get over it, slavery’s
done” or “Get over it, apartheid is over,” then I go, “You cannot get over it
because it ending is merely the beginning of your journey.” And so, you think
of it like this—in my family, I was the first person in my family who was
allowed to go to a white school or a school that was considered white. My
grandparents were not taught the things that other people’s grandparents were
taught if they were white in the country. And so now, even if we’re not talking
about financial inheritance, we’re talking about now educational inheritance.
My grandfather and grandmother couldn’t bequeath to me an education that they
would have learned because they didn’t get it. My mother, self-taught for many
things. She was lucky in that she encountered a missionary and that’s where she
learned things that the government wasn’t teaching to many black people. So,
there you see someone equalizing or get her back to zero, which is where
everyone should be able to start from.”
My prayer will be that as we continue
to have conversations such as this one in mainstream that the ears and hearts
of all involved will begin to deal with the truth around the feelings that we
have so long ignored and pretended that they don’t exist.
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